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Your Sex Scripts Revisited | Dr Ian Kerner #599

Your Sex Scripts Revisited | Dr Ian Kerner #599

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Sex Scripts In Marriage | Feedback Wednesday #598

Sex Scripts In Marriage | Feedback Wednesday #598

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Love And The Purity Culture | Dr Sean McDowell #597

Love And The Purity Culture | Dr Sean McDowell #597

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Normal Sex #596

Normal Sex #596

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Make Marriage A Fortress | Gary Thomas #595

Make Marriage A Fortress | Gary Thomas #595

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Doing Sex Wrong | Dr Stephen Snyder #594

Doing Sex Wrong | Dr Stephen Snyder #594

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Focus On The How

Focus On The How

What is it that creates the intensity in certain conversations with your spouse? What moves a conversation between two people from the issue at hand into personal meltdown - emotional reactivity? Emotional reactivity turns out to be nature's way of...

Keeping Your Cool

Keeping Your Cool

I know you've been there before, you're in the midst of an intense discussion with your spouse and it moves beyond a conversation about the issue at hand and gets personal. A button has been pushed, or you pushed their button and now it heats up...

Sexy Marriage Radio Turns 11!!!!

Sexy Marriage Radio Turns 11!!!!

Today is a big day. Sexy Marriage Radio is celebrating our 11th birthday today!!!! Celebrate with us because you are part of this with us. The SMR Nation is such a vital aspect of our journey thus far. Thank you for the 11 years of listening and...

Me vs We

Me vs We

You walk in the door and are greeted with… “Honey, we need to talk about a few things.” If you’re human, your insides immediately tighten and your defenses prepare for battle. It’s a common occurrence. Your spouse tells you what’s going on with...

Relationships Are Easy

Relationships Are Easy

Relationships are actually pretty easy. I didn't always believe this. In fact, I used to believe relationships are hard work. I've written these very words many times. You've probably even heard this phrase before. It is often stated as a Truism in...

Natural dynamics in every relationship

Natural dynamics in every relationship

There are natural dynamics at work in every marriage and relationship. How do these impact you? Here's a quick preview of one of our upcoming video courses, Desire Matters Course. https://youtu.be/jniPyF1sM-w Our Marriage Matters Courses launch in...

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