The 2024 SMR Getaway

Registration is open for the 2024 Sexy Marriage Radio Getaway. Click here to join us. Come spend four days with the Pam and I and lots of other couples from the SMR Nation in DFW – June 13-15th This is one of the best marriage conferences/retreats/seminars out...

Unveiling the Shadows: Understanding Normal Marital Sadism

This week I want to explore a topic that might make some uncomfortable, but it’s a crucial aspect of understanding the intricacies of long-term relationships: normal marital sadism. This is also the topic we cover on SMR (Normal Marital Sadism #666). Now, before...

Trauma and Safety In Marriage

In this week’s episode of Sexy Marriage Radio (Yes, But … #664), we dive deeper into a crucial topic that affects many couples: the discovery of a spouse’s pornography use and the ensuing fallout. A listener’s email the episode prior sparked a...

Navigating Past Your Past

As a therapist for over two decades and a podcast host for half that time, I’ve witnessed firsthand the profound impact that our past experiences can have on our present relationships. In this week’s episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, I had the pleasure of...

A Three-Way Marriage: A SMR Manifesto For Christian Lovers

Last week I re-released my first manifesto, A SMR Manifesto. It contained a wealth of information regarding marriage and its design to help us grow into better people. It’s the premise behind everything at SMR. But there is also a very important undercurrent...