Focus On The How

Focus On The How

What is it that creates the intensity in certain conversations with your spouse? What moves a conversation between two people from the issue at hand into personal meltdown - emotional reactivity? Emotional reactivity turns out to be nature's way of informing us of...

Keeping Your Cool

Keeping Your Cool

I know you've been there before, you're in the midst of an intense discussion with your spouse and it moves beyond a conversation about the issue at hand and gets personal. A button has been pushed, or you pushed their button and now it heats up even more. The...

Sexy Marriage Radio Turns 11!!!!

Sexy Marriage Radio Turns 11!!!!

Today is a big day. Sexy Marriage Radio is celebrating our 11th birthday today!!!! Celebrate with us because you are part of this with us. The SMR Nation is such a vital aspect of our journey thus far. Thank you for the 11 years of listening and supporting us. Here's...

Me vs We

Me vs We

You walk in the door and are greeted with… “Honey, we need to talk about a few things.” If you’re human, your insides immediately tighten and your defenses prepare for battle. It’s a common occurrence. Your spouse tells you what’s going on with them and you react. The...

Relationships Are Easy

Relationships Are Easy

Relationships are actually pretty easy. I didn't always believe this. In fact, I used to believe relationships are hard work. I've written these very words many times. You've probably even heard this phrase before. It is often stated as a Truism in our society, and...

Natural dynamics in every relationship

Natural dynamics in every relationship

There are natural dynamics at work in every marriage and relationship. How do these impact you? Here's a quick preview of one of our upcoming video courses, Desire Matters Course. https://youtu.be/jniPyF1sM-w Our Marriage Matters Courses launch in September of 2022!...

Natural dynamics in every relationship

A Better Framework

This is a common email I receive. A wife asked for help. She felt stuck in her marriage and wanted me to give her advice. While I do work with individuals in a counseling and coaching relationship, I was curious in the way she was wording her email so I asked her to...

Doctor people and coach people

Doctor people and coach people

*The following is taken and adapted from Mark Manson. For years I have been producing content on Sexy Marriage Radio and the blog aimed at helping people take the next steps in their relationships and life. Over the years, it seems that people who seek out marriage...

How to tell if a man has lost his courage

How to tell if a man has lost his courage

This is the second message in a short series aimed at husbands who stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Man Of His Word Mastermind Groups that start in August. You can learn more by clicking here. If...

How Honest Are You?

How Honest Are You?

I'm beginning the process of enrollment in the Man Of His Word Mastermind groups -- with new groups launching in August. No man has a good enough memory to make a successful liar. ~ Abraham Lincoln If asked, you probably will say you’re an honest person. Meaning, you...

SMR Getaway Experience

SMR Getaway Experience

The 2022 SMR Getaway in downtown Indy was a great success! Here's one attendees experience ... Corey and Pam My wife and I had a great time at the Getaway in Indianapolis. We’ve been to several marriage getaways, both in person and virtual, and yours was by far the...

Is YOUR Marriage a High Value Item?

Is YOUR Marriage a High Value Item?

When my wife Pam began as the permanent co-host with me on Sexy Marriage Radio, we were also experimenting with creating video versions of the shows. On our first ever video, right before hitting record for the audio (with the camera already rolling) Pam looked over...