The Paradox of Getting More Done

I used to be a lot like you. I had huge to-do lists, ran myself ragged, and worried endlessly how I was ever going to get everything accomplished because man, I was so busy! It almost was a badge of honor. I mean, it’s how we answer everyone’s casual...

Are You Being Busy Or Effective?

This is the first post in a short series where we’re learning why most husbands stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Man Of His Word Mastermind Groups that start in August. You can learn more by...

Discover Your Hidden Super Power

I’ll be honest – Many times as husbands, we can be wimps. In fact, if you’re like me, there are times when you can play the wimpy, victim role very well. This is a classic Nice Guy trait. You hear it in what we say to ourselves and others:...

Challenge Meanings

As the most evolved species on the planet, humans are granted the ability to experience much more in this life than a genetic drive to find food, find a mate, and procreate for species survival. Humans have the ability to make choices. To be the masters of their own...

The Elusive Happiness Problem

In October of 2006 I finished writing and defending my Dissertation, which was the final step in completing my Ph.D. in Family Therapy. This was a huge milestone. One that began six years earlier when I decided to begin graduate school. Completing school was something...