How Do I Know I'm Growing Up?

One of the things I’m often asked by my clients (and readers) is “How do I know when I’m growing up?” This may seem like a simple question, but if you view relationships (especially marriage) as a people-growing machine, then it can sometimes...

The Art of Contentment

A majority of struggle in married life is in our head. We wonder why we can’t find time to connect with loved ones because we’re caught up in our to do lists, or struggling with an inadequacy, or striving to create a life like we see other’s living...

The Hamper Test

How big is your closet? My hunch … regardless how big a closet you have, it’s full! Now answer this: What percentage of your wardrobe do you actually wear? I came across a statement from a closet expert (someone who knows closets, not someone hiding the...

The Most Important Relationship You’ll Ever Have

Do a Google search of the word relationships and you’ll find about 178,000,000 articles, links and sites on the topic. Interestingly though, you won’t find many links and articles on the most important relationship you’ll ever have – the one...

How To Harness Time With A Focus On Energy

I am an expert time waster. It’s a gift really. You give me a block of time, even an entire day, and I can accomplish next to nothing through all of it. Oh, I’ll look busy. I’ll sit at the computer and keep typing. I’ll keep moving about the...