Post written by Corey Allan.

Every person seeks happiness.
You hear it all the time, “I just want to be happy.”
“Life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.” This last phrase points out an important aspect, the pursuit of happiness. There is no guarantee that it can be obtained.
One of the common things I see is people spending most every waking moment seeking happiness. As if it is something out there to be gained or discovered.
Perhaps this is a major contributor to the state of our society.
Watch television for more than five minutes and you will see this idea confirmed.
If I can only get the car, house, boat, job, relationship, salary increase; then life will be complete. I will lack nothing, at least until the next can’t-do-without product is available for purchase.
The average adult now has more than 4 different careers in their lifetime. My father-in-law had one job from the time he was a teenager until retirement. Forty-two years at the same job. That’s almost unheard of now.
It seems our society is more into the thought that if this job won’t bring about happiness, the next one will.
If this relationship doesn’t bring about happiness, then a relationship with him or her will.
If life in this tax bracket isn’t satisfying, then the next bracket up will be.
It’s the same story over and over. Something out there will complete my life.
It will fill the void.
What if the key to happiness rests internally?
What if happiness can be learned?
This starts with the idea that happiness is up to me.
My perspective of things will influence the results.
My expectations affect the outcome.
So what is it about my life that brings me happiness?
If I change my outlook from happiness being something out there to it resting internally, ask this:
What am I grateful for in my life?
What are my successes or wins lately?
When I focus too much on what else is out there, I neglect the things I currently possess.
Going to the other extreme is also unhealthy. Spending too much time focusing on what used to be produces blurred vision about what is.
Focusing too much on the future or too much on the past, I will miss a lot of what is going on now.
I think I have told every one of my clients at some point to slow down.
We live life at a fast enough speed as it is.
Sometimes speed only produces uncertainty.
Did you realize that of all the species on the planet, humans are the only ones that when lost, speed up. All other animals will slow down or even sit down until they get their bearings before proceeding.
Do you know where you really want to go?
What is your vision for life?
If you have trouble answering the preceding questions, that’s where you should spend some time reflecting and searching. Take an inventory of your current life. What are the things that you enjoy? What are the things that drain you?
Enjoy the things going on in life right now.
Happiness can be learned, and it starts with what’s going on inside you now.
Happiness is not something out there, its inside.
Resting deep within your soul waiting to be tapped into.
By slowing down and seeking what you really want, life will begin to be more aligned and then more full.

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