This is the second post in a short series where we’re learning why most husbands stay stuck on some plateau in life and why a rare few are able to level up. This is all included in the Man Of His Word Mastermind Groups that start in January. You can learn more by clicking here.
Today we’re talking about courage or intestinal fortitude – or medically stated, testicles – or the slang term, huevos.
There are times in life when a man loses touch with his huevos. This is we he seeks comfort at all costs. Every decision he makes is determined by what will give him a greater sense of comfort in the short term.
It’s like he wants a free lunch – expecting that he can find a way to get what he wants without having to break a sweat, take any risks, or face any uncertainty. This guy is also known as the Nice Guy.
A typical Nice Guy creates a great plan and works hard to try and perfect it, the problem is this plan is all covert. It’s manipulative. It’s sneaky. This is all because he’s afraid when it comes right down to it, he won’t be able to take a punch.
He’s convinced that if he falls down that he’ll likely never get back up. He’s decided he’s not going to take action until he feels confident. As if confidence is going to just fall out of a tree. [Read more…] about How To Tell A Man Has Lost His Courage