Telehealth Help and Desire Differences #518
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A lower desire wife emails wanting help getting her husband to understand her interest in her experiencing an orgasm during sex as well, not just him.
A wife in a sexless marriage wants to know how to get her husband interested in sex.
On the Xtended version …
The benefits of boredom and routine and the small steps you can take create a better path forward.
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Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex #517
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I’m joined by Dr Ian Kerner as we discuss his new book So Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex.
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Rapid Fire Q&A #516
Today we try something different. We cover lots of questions in rapid-fire style. All questions were submitted via Instagram. Want to follow us there? Please do: @sexymarriageradio
Just a hint of the topics we cover:
Oral sex, sizes, fetishes, first time and wedding night, talking about sex and a whole lot more!
On the Xtended version …
We go more in-depth with more questions from IG only this time on threesomes, pain during sex, past trauma and abuse, and shame.
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Optimal Sexual Experiences #515
I’m joined by Dr Emily Jamea and we discuss her work on helping couples experience optimal levels of sex in their marriage.
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Emily and I continue the conversation and move into the specifics about her research and the whys behind her findings.
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Lust #514
An email from a husband curious about all the penile enlargement and performance products promoted today.
A wife who has experienced pain in the beginning of their sex life but has now found a position that is pain free – now she’s anxious about trying out new positions.
On the Xtended version …
We unpack the concept of lust as mentioned in Matthew 5:27-30.
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Edging #513
Bouncing your eyes is one way to avoid the temptations around us, but what about steering your energy as well?
An email from a husband who is wondering if ruining his orgasm would help his quick ejaculation issue.
On the Xtended version …
A wonderful tool for helping you determine your responsibilities in the issues you face in life.
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Snoring #512
A peek behind the curtain into how Pam and I address the issue of snoring, and the messages built into our moves.
An email from a husband who is the higher desire for sex but the lower desire for romance. Is that odd?
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A recording of a talk Corey gave at church about how do I see myself and how does God see me?
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Moments of Meeting #511
How does a husband help his wife be more confident, while also helping his teenage daughter be less confident?
A husband is confident at work, yet struggles to being that same presence to home.
A higher desire wife struggles initiating due to fear of rejection and they both have struggled with masturbation throughout their lives.
On the Xtended version …
Moments of meeting. Perhaps this is a better way to frame what many of us are really looking for in marriage and life.
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We Aren’t Good Kissers #510
A voicemail from a wife who wants to connect better with her husband through kissing, but they have trouble doing so.
An email about the connection between higher desire vs lower desire and spontaneous drive vs responsive drive.
Is solo sex harmful to your health? What about sex outside of marriage?
A husband can’t shake his desire to explore a more free lifestyle now that marriage and kids and responsibilities have taken over his life.
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My Own Taste #509
An email from a higher desire husband looking to not take the rejections so personal from his lower desire wife.
A husband wants to go down on his wife after they’ve had intercourse, yet isn’t so sure.
A wife of a video game husband wants to know how to be more solid in confronting the amount of time he plays online and disconnects from the family life.
On the Xtended version …
Creating a more solid sense of self and the art of self-validation.
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Three Types Of Sex #508
I’m joined by Irene Fehr and we have a conversation about the three types of sex she believe all couples experience in marriage.
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Irene and I continue the conversation and move into the specifics of how you can create better connection in sex.
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Next Wisest Step #507
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Pam and I have a coffee shop conversation about when you’re faced with choices where there really isn’t right or wrong yet, what’s the best wise step?
An email from a listener asking about ideas to help address issues when there are size differences between spouses.
On the Xtended version …
A great quote from Charles Cooley – “I am not who you think I am, I am not who I think I am, I am who I think you think I am.”
Let’s unpack.
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