Question Potpourri #455
A question from a wife about a condition her husband has called phimosis and how this impacts their sex life.
Another wife wants to know how to get her husband to be more romantic.
A wife calls wanting to know how to be more free and let go in her sex life.
On the Xtended version …
A caller asks us three questions – female-led relationships – pleasure derived from pain during sex – and vibrators.
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The Female Orgasm #454
A conversation with Vanessa Marin, a fellow sex therapist, about the most common issues couples face in their sex lives today. You can find more about Vanessa on her site https://vmtherapy.com/
On the Xtended version …
Vanessa and I continue the conversation about sex, only this time we’re focusing solely on the female orgasm.
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Daily Self Touching #453
A husband calls in asking for our thoughts about his wife’s habit of touching herself most every morning and night.
A newly-wed wife calls wanting help with her infrequent sex life and struggling attraction for her husband.
On the Xtended version …
How do you confront change with your spouse? Where you want more for them and they don’t want it for themselves?
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Labels, Disabilities and Meanings #452
A husband asks for our thought regarding a better term to use when referring to a specific part of his wife’s body.
An email from a spouse asking for help in approaching their sex life when one of them is disabled.
On the Xtended version …
Love and Respect, is one more important than the other in marriage? What role and meaning do each of these play?
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Fantasies, Threesomes and Anxiety #451
A couple of emails about fantasies … from threesomes to aggressive sex almost like rape. Are these common? What do they mean?
On the Xtended version …
An email from a wife whose husband has performance anxiety during sex, making it quite difficult to connect and enjoy their sexual encounters.
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Anal Sex #450
A couple of emails on the topic of Anal Sex. What do you do when one spouse is unwilling to try it? And what are some tips for those who are willing to try it?
Plus an email from a wife whose husband is turned off by sex during pregnancy – and after it.
On the Xtended version …
We unpack an email from a wife who found out her husband masturbates regularly to porn because she set up a hidden camera in their bedroom.
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ADHD and Marriage #449
I’m joined by Melissa Orlov, of ADHD Marriage and we discuss how ADHD impacts life and relationships. Read more from Melissa on her site here – https://www.adhdmarriage.com/
On the Xtended version …
Melissa Orlov and I continue the conversation about ADHD and marriage but venture into how it impacts sex.
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Role Playing #448
Welcome to 2020. Join us as we go through our 3 words for the year. What are yours?
An email from a listener wondering how to get his wife more comfortable with lingere and role playing.
On the Xtended version …
A voicemail about how gender roles and egalitarian roles impact married life and sex.
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Best Of SMR: Three Kinds of Sex #447
A look back in the SMR archives at one of the most popular shows to date. Birthday sex, shower sex, oral sex.
On the Xtended version …
The importance of boundaries in life and marriage.
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Foreplay For Foreplay #446
Jessa Zimmerman joins me to answer an email from listeners who say they have a great marriage but real struggle in their sex life.
A conversation about the idea of foreplay for foreplay.
On the XTD content.
What books I’ve read this year and their impact on my life and marriage.
When To Walk Away #445
As a gift from us to you this Holiday Season both versions of today’s episode are free.
Today we are joined by author Gary Thomas as he discusses his new book, When To Walk Away: Finding Freedom From Toxic People.
You can learn more about Gary and his books here – http://www.garythomas.com/
Holiday Movies and Vaginas #444
An email from a husband concerned about how the Holiday Hallmark movies impact his wife and their marriage.
Plus a husband seeks our help in understanding how to play with his wife’s vagina.