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Delay Tactics #530

Delay Tactics #530

An email from a husband wondering why many marriage resources out there take the stance of it’s the husbands fault.

A husband emails wanting to know if taking a break from pursuing sex with his lower desire wife would help reset things for them both.

On the Xtended version …

Are there delay tactics used in marriage and sex to avoid things we don’t want to participate in or follow through with?

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Crossdressing #529

Crossdressing #529

An email from a member of the Nation adding to the conversation about how a HD Spouse can approach their LD Spouse better on the topic of sex.

A wife emails asking for how to handle resentment and guilt over how long it has taken to grow more confident sexually.

A husband emails wondering if his interest in wearing feminine underwear is a potential problem.

On the Xtended version …

Part 4 of the Q and A that happens at the end of the SMR Getaway.

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Wife Won’t Let Husband Masturbate #528

Wife Won’t Let Husband Masturbate #528

An email from a wife whose husband says that if she would let him masturbate or look at porn he would be more interested in sex with her and would be able to finish more regularly.

Two emails from different wives wanting to know how to address when husbands have gained a lot of weight and have little interest in a healthier lifestyle. 

On the Xtended version …

Part 3 of the Q and A that happens at the end of the SMR Getaway. This time we go into questions like gridlock and books to help relationships.

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Rapid Fire with Longer Answers #527

Rapid Fire with Longer Answers #527

We recorded an extended rapid fire episode while at the SMR Getaway, only this time we go more in depth with the answers.

On the Xtended version …

Part 2 of the Q and A that happens at the end of the SMR Getaway. This time we go into some deep questions like betrayal and desire differences.

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Found My Husband’s Dildo #526

Found My Husband’s Dildo #526

An email from a wife who feels stuck between faking it during sex or withholding and wants to know the best Biblical way to approach this in her marriage.

A wife emails because she found a dildo that her husband has been using while masturbating.

On the Xtended version …

A recording of part of the Q&A time at this year’s SMR Getaway.

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Best Of SMR: Oral Sex and Gagging #525

Best Of SMR: Oral Sex and Gagging #525

An email from a wife who gets nauseous and gags at the thought of her husband ejaculating into her mouth – yet he would really like to experience this with her.

And a voicemail from a new mom who wants to get the non-sexy images from childbirth and doctors out of her head to get sex going again with her husband.

On the Xtended version …

A look a some of the attitudes we can bring into marriage and relationships. Are you entitled in your marriage or is marriage designed to expose you more than you thought?

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Best Of SMR: Low Desire Wife #524

Best Of SMR: Low Desire Wife #524

A past episode with Dr Jennifer Finlayson-Fife about the Higher Desire/Lower Desire dynamic. Specifically about how this often plays out for the lower desire wife.

On the Xtended version …

Our conversation continues with Dr Jennifer and her research on the subject of religion and desire.

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Touch and Massage #523

Touch and Massage #523

A conversation with Denis Merkas of MELT: Couples Massage about how touch is so important in life and marriage. Take advantage of the first sale in 2 years here – Get MELT for Father’s Day

On the Xtended version …

A behind the scenes conversation with Denis about how MELT has impacted his life and what he’s learned. Plus he turns the table on Dr Allan.

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Hostage Taking #522

Hostage Taking #522

An email from a newly-married wife who is interested in sex more in the evening while her husband in interested in the mornings. Plus, he masturbates regularly during the day.

A message from Instagram asking what kind of feedback we get from our willingness to talk frankly about sex and relationships.

On the Xtended version …

A husband emails asking how to bring up the subject of sex when for 18 years it’s been clear it’s not something his wife will talk about.

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Rapid Fire: Newlywed, Oral, Talking and More #521

Rapid Fire: Newlywed, Oral, Talking and More #521

Today we try go rapid fire again and still don’t get to all the questions submitted via Instagram. Want to follow us there? Please do: @sexymarriageradio

Just a hint of the topics we cover:

Oral sex, honeymoon tips, speaking up, anal sex, friends, talking about likes and a whole lot more!

On the Xtended version …

We go more in-depth with more questions from IG only this time on sexual dreams, libido and cycles, moods, and toys.

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No Sex Allowed #520

No Sex Allowed #520

A voicemail from a husband about their therapist’s advice that the should not have sex for the next 4 months.

A husband emails about how his wife will not allow herself to have an orgasm.

An email from a soon to be divorced man wondering what he will do about his sex drive when single.

On the Xtended version …

Retroactive jealously and judgment. And how do we view our spouse’s past.

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Dominant or Submissive #519

Dominant or Submissive #519

An email from a wife who really wants her husband to explore and lead as a Dominant role in their sex life, although he is more of a Submissive.

On the Xtended version …

A husband wants to know how to extend the sex sessions with his wife when they only happen twice a year. They both are in a Two-Choice Dilemma.

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