Fantasies, Threesomes and Anxiety #451
A couple of emails about fantasies … from threesomes to aggressive sex almost like rape. Are these common? What do they mean?
On the Xtended version …
An email from a wife whose husband has performance anxiety during sex, making it quite difficult to connect and enjoy their sexual encounters.
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Anal Sex #450
A couple of emails on the topic of Anal Sex. What do you do when one spouse is unwilling to try it? And what are some tips for those who are willing to try it?
Plus an email from a wife whose husband is turned off by sex during pregnancy – and after it.
On the Xtended version …
We unpack an email from a wife who found out her husband masturbates regularly to porn because she set up a hidden camera in their bedroom.
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ADHD and Marriage #449
I’m joined by Melissa Orlov, of ADHD Marriage and we discuss how ADHD impacts life and relationships. Read more from Melissa on her site here – https://www.adhdmarriage.com/
On the Xtended version …
Melissa Orlov and I continue the conversation about ADHD and marriage but venture into how it impacts sex.
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Role Playing #448
Welcome to 2020. Join us as we go through our 3 words for the year. What are yours?
An email from a listener wondering how to get his wife more comfortable with lingere and role playing.
On the Xtended version …
A voicemail about how gender roles and egalitarian roles impact married life and sex.
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Best Of SMR: Three Kinds of Sex #447
A look back in the SMR archives at one of the most popular shows to date. Birthday sex, shower sex, oral sex.
On the Xtended version …
The importance of boundaries in life and marriage.
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Foreplay For Foreplay #446
Jessa Zimmerman joins me to answer an email from listeners who say they have a great marriage but real struggle in their sex life.
A conversation about the idea of foreplay for foreplay.
On the XTD content.
What books I’ve read this year and their impact on my life and marriage.
When To Walk Away #445
As a gift from us to you this Holiday Season both versions of today’s episode are free.
Today we are joined by author Gary Thomas as he discusses his new book, When To Walk Away: Finding Freedom From Toxic People.
You can learn more about Gary and his books here – http://www.garythomas.com/
Holiday Movies and Vaginas #444
An email from a husband concerned about how the Holiday Hallmark movies impact his wife and their marriage.
Plus a husband seeks our help in understanding how to play with his wife’s vagina.
Reading List #443
A sex ed quiz for my wife and co-host, Pam.
An email from a listener asking for a reading list to help him not only in the counseling world but also in marriage.
Not Always In The Mood #442
A conversation with Dr Sarah Hunter Murray, a therapist who has a new book exploring the science of men, sex and relationships.
Check out her work and pick up her book here https://sarahhuntermurray.com/
On the Xtended version …
Dr Sarah joins me to answer a question from a husband whose wife initiated sex and then informed him she did so only because she knows he needs it.
Help My Parents and Confronting Desire Differences #441
An email from a listener about how to bring up the idea that his parents need counseling.
Plus a 2 part email from a higher desire wife who wants help addressing the desire difference and oral sex.
On the Xtended version …
A discussion about how to recover from fights in married life.
Selfish and Needy #440
A conversation with Dr Laura Dabney, a Psychiatrist who works with clients by helping the deal with emotions better – especially the emotions we’ve often deemed as bad.
Check out her work here https://www.lauradabney.com/