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Episode 81: Leaking sexual energy

We've made the comment before that our belief is 100% of your sexual energy needs to be directed toward your marriage. What if you're married to someone with a different belief? That's what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Triggers and behaviors Intimacy in...

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Episode 79: How do you initiate?

There's a high desire and a low desire in every relationship. Usually the high desire is responsible for initiating most, but not always. That's what we cover in this episode. Show topics: The devil's pact Be yourself Self-soothing __________ Got a question? Email us...

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Episode 78: Do this, Not this

Setting the mood. Ruining the mood. Sometimes there's a fine line between the two. That's what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Music Environment Moves __________ Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen to Sexy Marriage Radio below ......

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Episode 77: Dealing with rejection anxiety

Every one of us gets rejected at times. Some times a lot. So how do you deal with this better? That's what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Rejection anxiety Instigate Isolate Escalate __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com. Listen...

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Episode 76: Intimacy and Sex

Are intimacy and sex the same thing? Can you have intimacy without sex? That's what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Following the connection Separateness vs. Togetherness Foreplay and sex __________ Got a question? Email us at feedback@sexymarriageradio.com....

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Episode 75: High and low isn’t gender specific

There are lots of marriages where the man is the high desire partner for sex. BUT, this isn't always the case. Being the high desire is not gender specific. That's what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Listener emails Making meaning Be clear about what you're...

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Episode 74: Going from good to great

Many of our shows are aimed at those experiencing issues or struggles in marriage. Not today. Today we're talking about what it takes to move a good marriage in to a great one. That's what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Both have to be interested Claim the...

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Episode 73: Orbiters in Crisis

Whenever there's a crisis in marriage, it's common that one spouse becomes an orbiter of the other. While this is an understandable reaction, it's not beneficial. That's what we cover in this episode. Show topics: What is an orbiter How men and women do this How to...

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Episode 72: Worse before better

Relationships evolve slowly over time. They ebb and they flow. But what about when you want things to get better? Do they get worse before they get better? That's what we cover in this episode. Show topics: The value of sticking with it Perspective Growing up both as...

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Episode 71: My Spouse’s Happiness Committee

What do I do when my spouse won't accept my compliments or statements about how good I think they look? Then their rejections squash my desire. That's what we cover in this episode. Show topics: Who is your spouse's happiness committee? Being congruent and authentic...

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Episode 70: When pressure leads to aversion

Help, my wife has an aversion to sex so there's little to no sex happening. And during the times in between, she thinks everything I do is about sex so she feels pressured all the time. That's what we cover in this episode. Show topics: The role you play in this as a...

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