A Three-Way Marriage: A SMR Manifesto For Christian Lovers

Last week I re-released my first manifesto, A SMR Manifesto. It contained a wealth of information regarding marriage and its design to help us grow into better people. It’s the premise behind everything at SMR. But there is also a very important undercurrent...

Growing Up In Marriage

This past weekend I had the chance to speak at Freedom Church Los Alamos. It’s so great to be among real people – who love God – and are bringing God’s love to others! *Interested in having me come speak to your group or church? Let’s...

Live Dangerously in Marriage

“Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.” ~ Helen Keller Creating intimacy between you and another person can be scary, even dangerous at times — but most everyone wants it; to not be alone as...

What If Your Story Changes?

“Hey babe, what if next summer we set off on an adventure as a family and travel around the country in an RV for a year or two?” “I could see doing that.” A couple of hours later my wife comes to me … “There has to be a bigger reason to...

Too Busy?

Meet the All-American family: a house in the suburbs, nice cars, 2.5 kids, both parents working, kids on a team for soccer, baseball, dance, quite a bit of debt on credit cards, a mortgage, and routine, vanilla sex once a week (usually). Or put another way, schedules...