What If You're Wrong?

Do you have seasons or years of your life that you look back on and wonder “Who is that person?” I can’t believe I used to do that, think that, work there. I used to try and not care about anything as a teenager and young adult – when the truth...

Let's Talk About Sex, Baby

Sex is an important aspect of most every marriage. Your sexuality plays a major role in life. It influences how you dress, act, and interact with others around you. It’s everywhere. Stand in line at your local grocery store and see if you can avoid seeing the...

Sexual Desire Differences, What If There's Nothing Going Wrong?

Are you the high desire or the low desire spouse when it comes to sex? Have desire differences created problems in your marriage? Sooner or later, most couples experience problems in this area. Desire problems are the most common sexual complaint for couples. But what...

Helping When Help Isn't Really Wanted

The scene is a couple driving in the car on the way to dinner: Silence for several minutes. “What’s wrong?” “Nothing.” A few more minutes of silence passed, “I know something is wrong. What’s going on?” “Nothing! Jeez, what am I doing?” “That’s just it! You’re...

Sexless Marriages

There are many marriages today that fall under the label of a sexless marriage. Newsweek estimates the number to be about 15 to 20 percent of couples. So what makes a marriage sexless? At face value this seems like a simple question. According to the literature, a...