Wanting To Be Wanted CoursesA series of online courses each designed to help you achieve greater satisfaction and passion within your marriage relationship.
Online Courses To Help Create More Passionate Marriages
Self-paced online materials help you make a meaningful investment in yourself and your marriage.
These life-changing courses allow you to view relationship and intimacy challenges in a radically new way, while in the privacy of your own home.
Not intended as a substitute for therapy or coaching, these courses provide a cost-effective alternative for those seeking proven tools to heal, strengthen, and enhance their most important relationships.
Rekindle and Connect Course
Learn how to rekindle the spark in your marriage as well as how to keep the fire going.
Discover how to addresses the common pitfalls that extinguish the sparks in marriage, and get a roadmap to enjoy deeper connections with your spouse.
This course could also be titled “I Love You But Don’t Tell Me What To Do”
Your view of what’s happening in your relationship dramatically impacts what happens in your relationship.
When you change your view, you change what you do, and things likely dramatically improve.
Increase Sexual Intimacy Course
This course could also be titled “How You Do Sex Is How You Do Life”
Work to overcome the most common psychological and relational roadblocks to intimacy and sexual connection.
Learn (with exercises) how to deepen your physical connection, and transform sex from an anxiety-laden chore into a loving, desirable experience for both of you.
More on the way ...
New courses are in the works and coming soon.
What Participants From Past Courses Are Saying
Don’t just take it from us, let our past couples do the talking!
“When I started this course my husband and I were living in separate parts of the house and preparing for divorce. We had tried other counseling with no positive results. My husband had no interest to participate and I was hesitant to work through the course alone but I thought that would be better than doing nothing. At the end of the eight week course, my husband and I are sleeping together again and working through our issues. We are discussing conflict more openly. I started this course hoping I could fix my husband but instead I have learned so much about my child-like behaviors that were damaging my marriage. I feel I now have tools to continue to learn to be the person I want to be in my marriage. “
“This class has been like a pressure relief valve – so far – in our marriage – taking a step back, understanding the blame game, etc. takes some of the anger away. Counseling was not working for us at all – getting that third person out of the mix didn’t hurt either. “
“For me, the final lesson pretty much summed up all that was/is going wrong with myself, my marriage and my life. Wow. I suddenly see very clearly where I’m taking the wrong turns. My whole life – my ideas for writing and business, my marriage, my sex life – had pretty much turned into “masturbation” – watching, doing things only in my mind, for myself, not “showing” anything to the world, avoiding rejection and risk. “Penetrating the world” is a very powerful image for me and my way forward. Thanks. “
Frequently Asked Questions
How do these courses work?
- In depth modules available the moment you join.
- Materials are in video format, with supplemental printouts available as well.
What if I have a question or need support during the course?
Every course purchase includes access to support from Dr Allan via email as well as discussion areas within each course. These options give course participants an opportunity to ask Dr. Allan their questions while working through their course material.
How soon after I purchase will I get access to my course materials?
Once you purchase one or more courses, you will be have access immediately from within your Dashboard in the SMRNation Community. Any Digital Course Material needed for you course(s) will be also be available within the Dashboard.
If I want to take a course with my spouse do I need to purchase the course twice?
Only one course purchase is required per household. You can share the course with anyone who lives with you.
Are these courses still helpful if I have to take it solo since my spouse isn’t interested?
The courses are tremendously beneficial taken solo or as a couple. Obviously, when both members of the marriage are involved, the course can be great for your relationship. But those who participate solo can still gain a great deal from this class.
The better you understand how healthy, passionate relationships work and what it takes to create them, as well as the other forces naturally at work in every marriage, the more effective you will be creating the relationship you want going forward.